I found this good video via a Quora answer

23 and 1/2 hours: What is the single best thing we can do for our health?

I wish everyone a great year ahead.

How to Be Happy

A really short video, worth your time. Found via http://www.quora.com/How-do-you-get-over-the-fear-of-quitting-your-job-to-start-a-startup

PS: Do not read too much into it, It is just for your reading pleasure

All frameworks have crazy dependencies, if you don’t agree with me, name one that doesn’t! Crazy dependencies result from chunky abstractions, and you can’t avoid them unless you instead design a bunch of small generic orthogonal abstractions. But in the latter case, you have something more like a language than a framework.

Everyone (including competing product groups) seems to believe that their own chunky abstractions are better than someone else’s. This is BS, you just wind up replacing something you aren’t familiar with with something that you are familiar with because you wrote it yourself, which makes a different set of trade offs that caters specifically to your needs. There are of course better designs, but the intrinsic complexity remains no matter how good the design is. (Emphasis mine)

From a lambda-the-ultimate post by Sean McDirmid. http://lambda-the-ultimate.org/node/3720

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary

I will expand on pair programming point a bit and add my perspective.

You add more members to the team. They start writing code. Even though you can educate your developers about how the code is written, but everyone brings some baggage with them (culture, how they worked in previous projects, companies etc…)

There is a gap in terms of skill level, experience level and understanding (being on the same page with respect to the architecture, design, development practices) when the team ramps up. We need to pair at least till the gap is bridged.

I see two aspects to maintainability, preventive and reactive. Both are equally important. Pairing is probably one of the tools in the the former and reviews the later. Reactive probably has a negative connotation to it so i might reword it as ongoing effort or continuous effort.

This just like how we should handle Performance. Design for performance and still plan for performance tuning when things fall out of place.

To generalize aim for the best and ideal, you won’t reach there because there is always a gap between ideal and real. So when things fall out of place have checks and counter measures to pull them back on track.

As some one who hates reviews I have come to a compromise that they are necessary evil.

Ideas Are Worthless…

The value of ideas laid in their execution

idea’s relative lack of value in the absence of unyielding execution.

from http://infochachkie.com/spilling-the-beans/ found via http://www.quora.com/What-should-the-Winklevoss-twins-have-done-to-protect-their-idea

People waste tremendous amounts of emotional energy on things that can’t be changed — notably other people and their behavior. Does it really do any good to get angry at that jackass driver who cut you off on the freeway? It won’t change anything. Even if you yell or honk he probably won’t notice or care. The anger makes you feel worse, not better. The same can be said for holding grudges or harboring resentments — it’s "like drinking poison and expecting someone else to die."

from http://www.quora.com/How-can-you-maximize-your-happiness-in-life